Monday, 10 September 2012


Hey, so this is bit of a random post...just wanted to talk about life as it has been on my mind latley and just wanted to share my thoughts and hopefully after reading this it might motivate some of you or make you want to try new things...i have read some posts similar and it defiantly made me feel better after :)

So you only live once, i try to think positive, don't like to let things get me down for too long, try not to hold grudges and love to try new things and meet new people, doing things i want to do and not caring about what other people think!

Life is full of ups and downs, you never know what tomorrow will bring. Today i have heard of two deaths, both people taking their own lives and i think it is so sad and just got me thinking about life today which is what prompted me to write this post. 

A lot of us over think things in life, over react to situations that are so small and not even worth the fuss...let something get us down when really it isn't a big deal. You always look back on things and think 'why did i waste all them days being depressed and cry over - whatever it is' you may end up crying for days over something or over think something which will just get you down and depress you for days...after it all though at some point you will always find happiness instead of dragging something on for hours or days...just try push it to the back of your mind and think you will get over it soon so why not do it sooner than later! life goes on, everybody goes through pain, tears, anger but it's best to not let it last for long..once it has happened it is the past and best thing is to concentrate on the future...people's biggest depression is focusing too much on the past and not letting go...

We need to live life to the full every day, if something new comes your way...if you get an oppurtunity..don't be scared to take a risk, what's the worst that could happen. Instead of thinking 'What If?' just take risks and chances, you will look back and be glad you did, at least you tried it. Why just stick to one thing - career wise...if you get stressed because you still don't know what you want to do, don't worry it will come...don't think that you have to be in one career forever! Like me i am 24 now and still not 100% what i really want to do...i am quite open minded anyway so i enjoy a lot of things so instead of trying to pick just one, i just go with the flow and let it come naturally. Its fun for change, who wants to be stuck in one job day in day out for the rest of their lives....all though if you do and you love it then that is fine :)

 If people hate on you don't let it effect you because who cares what anyone thinks of you in life expect your close friends or family. People you don't know, don't know you so don't worry if they want to judge, laugh it off and don't even think about it. I say if someone's got something to say about you bad or good...either way your on their mind ;)  ...i wouldn't even waste my breathe on people who do not care for you. In the end there are millions of people in the world all different, no one is the same and you will always get haters or people who don't agree or like what you you will never please every one but there will also be loads of people just like you who love who you are or what you like? so either way you can't win.... just do what you love and ignore stupid comments from people...if you don't you won't be able to enjoy life to the full.

As you grow older you start to let go of the silly things and not care about what people start to find the real you and do what you want. So if you are still in school, this is coming from a been there done that girl :) and im telling you now you will look back and think why didn't i just be my own person more instead of... following the crowd or being to shy to talk to that fit boy you fancied, etc. i look back and now realise i shouldn't have cared so much and should of took part in more things (but i was shy in school so that was a big problem for me) don't think 'what if' too always stops you from what you really want to do....instead of 'what if' anymore, 'just do it' and don't worry :) if i was in school now i would be so different....but then i suppose sometimes that will just come with age :/ 

If you have a dream go for it...the hard work and effort you put in will be worth it in the end...if you want something bad enough you can make it happen.
Life is precious, smile as much as you can and take chances, live your life how you want, do not take the small things too seriously and have fun :D

Hope this maybe has put some positive thoughts into your head now and your leaving my blog feeling happy and motivated...
Just to point out this all depends on the situations you personally go though in life...i am not saying that you shouldn't cry over things and you shouldn't ever be sad or angry... etc :/ this is just my lookout on life really....i know i have rambled a bit but hope you enjoyed reading!

check out these 2 Bob Marley video's below, two great tunes! especially to conclude my post :) 

Music is one thing that makes me happy and can chill me out if i am feeling down...different type of music can change your mood...just if your feeling sad please don't be tempted to put a love song on and cry even more...exactly something i use to do...don't know why we do it to ourselves...but BE STRONG :) lol instead put a upbeat tune on, dance around and forget your worries! 

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